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Criticism? Are you bothered? Well, you shouldn’t be and this is exactly why what others think about you should matter.

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This morning, I received a text from my awesome assistant, Gretchell, that read, “A great first blog topic for the year would be, “How can I become the best version of myself in 2018”. I loved it and decided to make it a priority for today. But, first, I had to do the laundry! I […]

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In the story “Acres of Diamonds”, a farmer in Africa sold his land to a buyer and went off looking for diamonds. The farmer didn’t realize that there were diamonds to be found in his own backyard. Back in July, I visited home. Home for me is San Bernardino, California, a mid-size desert/valley town in […]

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Reinvention…. Change… Transformation… These three words have somehow become a part of my vocabulary since working for Fearless Vixen. Even before, oftentimes I found myself telling myself that I NEED TO CHANGE MY GAME. I thought I needed to go out with my friends more often and do things that only involve me since after […]

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The very first time I took a pole dance class, I wore a big t-shirt and leggings. During class, as the instructor taught beginner moves, I felt clumsy and out of balance. Like a new child learning how to walk, pole just didn’t feel natural to me. As I looked at some of the women [...]

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So, if you want to have a breakthrough, don’t just ask, “why me”, ask to be shown the lesson. And, because of the irrevocable law of reciprocity – when you ask, you WILL receive.

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The easiest way to get rid of your people problems is to get vocal – to the person who is causing the problem.

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When you ask a question, the universe ALWAYS delivers a response. So, instead of saying, “Why me?”, or “Why do all of these bad things keep happening to me?”, here is a list of EMPOWERING questions…because if you’re gonna get a response, it might as well be a good one, right?

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I was talking to a friend the other day about an issue that she is dealing with. She was explaining to me that she’s found herself in a situation where she has to make a difficult life choice, but fortunately, with either choice, she’ll be in a good situation. She expressed that she felt like [...]

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This post isn’t about, red bottom shoes, the signature shoe design by Christian Louboutin. This post is about using red bottom shoes as a metaphor for clone culture. Here’s what I mean: A few months ago, I went to the movies with a friend to see the new Tupac biopic, All Eyez on Me, here [...]

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